GUIDE

Deciding who sees your child’s photos

How to choose who can see your kids’ photos and videos, and how to talk about it with family and friends.

Every December we order photo cards of the kids. Should they go to everyone we know, or only to family and close friends who will keep them?Split the list. Mail printed photo cards to the people who keep them, usually grandparents, older relatives and close friends, and send the wider circle a plain card or a digital photo with location turned off. Then use the cards USPS returns to clean up out-of-date addresses for next year.